Since I eliminated the beliefs and conditionings using the Natural Confidence program, I am no longer paying so much attention to what others think especially when it comes to doing something I've always wanted to do. I am not afraid of doing something new as the fear of doing something new is gone. I am not constantly thinking "people don't really want to hear what you're saying" when I talk about something. I can sit back and listen to other people speak without feeling the anxiety of coming up with something to say. And I do things without comparing myself to how other people do them. My main issues were fear, anxiety, and frustration and these just do not have the stranglehold on me like they did before the Natural Confidence program.
When the beliefs and conditionings were eliminated, I felt like I was, in effect, starting over yet with an adult's outlook. My days are more joyful without everything being tinged with the filter of those beliefs. To quote Martin Luther King, "I am free. At last I am free."
Lauren Lagergren. South Bend, WA, USA
I am just half-way through with the program but results are already obvious. My main problem which is fear of close contact with people in public places looks much reduced. I dropped a bottle of wine in a boutique the other day which broke into pieces and lot of people helped me and my family to cope with the problem. I really enjoyed the scene rather than feel awkward. I feel that my old problem of putting myself and my needs on the second place is gone and I am ready to defend my needs and interests everywhere.
Andrey Marusov. Moscow, Russia
After the Natural Confidence program, I have become more self confident and have started to trust my self more. I am more sure of myself and my abilities. As a result, at work I am not threatened by anyone when they are critical and I accept their criticism more constructively. I have become more empathetic to other people's concerns.
Karthik Rai. Germany
It's been over a year since I started the Natural Confidence program. I procrastinated in finishing it but with your support I completed it about two months ago.
As you know, I am 74 years old and have led an unusually intense life. I have been married four times and divorced three times. I was diagnosed with PTSD in early 2004 as a result of my service during the Viet Nam war. I have spent most of my life with the feeling of not being able to trust hardly anyone. I have always had this feeling of worrying about myself first and others next, if at all. My relationships have been superficial at best. The multi-marriages are just one example of my difficulty at being able to connect at a deeper emotional level with others, including my children. I have spent thousands of dollars and countless hours in therapy, taken all of the self-development courses available the last 40 years and they have helped some. I tell you all of this because it's the best lead-in to telling you what the Natural Confidence program has done for me that all of the many hours of therapy and self-development courses couldn't do or didn't d o.
The last few months since completing the Natural Confidence program has been the very best time of my life. After completing your program I felt strangely empty. I felt uncomfortably calm, not anxious, and smiling more — a very unusual feeling for me to have. I noticed that I was hardly ever critical of others anymore but suddenly I found myself being sincerely empathetic to the feelings of others. I find myself able to trust what others say and do — that's a first. My grown children and I are having sincere, loving communications---I am telling them I love them and they are saying the same thing!! Best of all, the petty arguments my wife and I have been having has diminished dramatically and we are spending lots of time talking and really listening to each other. People ask me what I'm doing—that I seem different. And I am---delightfully different!! I like myself and others. The vacuum that I felt when I eliminated those life-long ( until now) limiting beliefs are being filled with love and trust for others, especially my wife and children. The anxiety I have lived with for so long has been replaced with sincere feelings of caring and empathy for others.
There is no way to thank you and Shelley and the entire Lefkoe Institute staff for this miracle. This note is the best I can do. "Thank you" is a bit too shallow to convey my deep appreciation and love for all of you. With deep appreciation and love for all of you.
Terry Shull. Seattle, WA, USA
It just shows how good your programs are, I used your recreate your life program, and having done that and bust your money beliefs, which you kindly sent me as well, the results are amazing and since doing those programs I feel totally different. I know beacuse all these beliefs loisted above have no negative effect since doing those programs. Plus I am no longer afraid of flying or spiders, my confidence is amazing, please use this as a testimonial from a very satisfied customer, who will be back for more stuff later in the year. I have been trying to send you a testimonial thanking you for a while. So here it is at last.
Phil Watson. St Ives, Cornwall, UK
There are so many ways that the Natural Confidence program has affected me. All positive. I noticed right away that I did not think about a lot of the things that I used to, I just reacted differently as they came up. That in itself is a big stress reliever. I react with confidence.
I am a member of Toastmasters. I have been a member for three years. My voice always had that little gravely sound when I spoke--until I did the Natural Confidence program. Now the voice is steady!! I look people in the eye, where as other times I would look down or away. I notice that I smile more. I am aware that I shed things that I have been carrying around for years.
Sheryl Kaczmarek. Wisconsin, USA
I no longer am anxious about situations that would have made me stressful in the past. Especially when it comes to dealing with money, I have zero stress. It's helped me launch my own company, a luxury marketing and PR firm. I had been wanting launch it for a long time. Now have the confidence to do so and I'm not even nervous about it.
Jennifer Barthe. New York, USA and Paris, France
I now have an underlying sense of calm that I bring to my life. I now worry less, and for shorter periods with problems that arise in life.
Ian Rickard. Cambridge, England UK
The Lefkoe Natural Confidence program has significantly improved my life. I think the main reason for this is because it taught me to distinguish the difference between reality and "beliefs" about reality. Once you figure out that most of your reality is "made up," you can get rid of your worst "made up" beliefs. When you find yourself in formerly stressful situations, instead of being controlled by "made up" beliefs from childhood, you deal with the situation from true reality. When you do this, life becomes much less stressful, fears diminish, and, while anger does not totally disappear, it becomes much more manageable.
I have tried all the other programs for positive thinking, NLP, manifestation, etc. This has been the only one that I feel has made a PERMANENT change. Thanks Morty! I have noticed an improvement in conversing with other people (either phone or in person). Before this program, I seemed to be on the defense when speaking with other people. I never knew why, that's just the way I felt. After eliminating some of the first beliefs, I noticed I was much calmer with people on the phone and in person. I think it had something to do with the beliefs "I'm not good enough" and "What makes me feel important is when other people think well of me". Or it could be some of the other beliefs I feel I have eliminated.
I have noticed that even when I think I don't have a belief, as I go through Morty's process I start to reflect and regress to my childhood, thinking of things I had not thought of for many, many years. When I realize that the belief I have is simply "A" truth and not "THE" truth, a cleansing takes place. You don't even know it until the next day when you get in a formerly stressful situation and it no longer makes you anxious. It definitely puts a smile on your face!
Bill Nonte. Orlando, FL, USA
I feel less stressed about what people think of me and more confident in my purpose.
After eliminating the nineteen beliefs and three conditionings I feel less stressed about what people think of me and more confident in my purpose. I realize there are deeper and more complex belief systems, or survival strategies, that need work before I can be completely free of worry about judgement, rejection and how others feel about me, but this is a great beginning. With a new feeling of empowerment I spoke recently at a public rally, providing an alternative view to the other speakers, and even though my body shook a bit my voice was strong as I delivered my opinion.
I am grateful for the increase in confidence, patience and freedom from judgement I have received from your program. I would like to have a consultation to discover more of my belief systems and apply your process to them. I feel that with this program I have a tool I can use to liberate my creativity from the limitations of beliefs that has held it back for so long. Do you barter or take work trade s?:-)
Earl Brown.
Ukiah, CA, USA
I am in sales and had some apprehension with phone prospecting. The process made it noticeably easier within days. It helped me reframe my thinking about other situations in life.
Dean Nelson. Lake Wales, FL, USA